I know there are something like 18 women claiming to be Tiger Woods's mistresses. (Ironically, there are 18 holes in golf.) In reality he probably only had 2 or 3. This makes him more comparable to what I have been doing by having two girlfriends at the same time. (Tiger maybe had six mistresses or maybe 5 if his wife counts adding up to six. You can figure out the really bad joke from that.)
When I started this experiment I assumed that I needed to keep my options open. I never thought I would be at the point where I would effectively have two girlfriends. I was thinking that it was going to take a lot more work for me to find even one woman to have sex with me. As a result at every step I didn't pick one. Even when things got to this point I couldn't give one up even though I knew I had to do it.
I hated what I was doing. From a practical perspective, it was a headache managing two women like that. It took up so much time. I had to remember not to say the other's name when with either one of them. Beyond that I hated what I become from a moral/ethical perspective too. I knew I had to do something about this, but I kept finding ways to not do it.
Well, I finally did it. Since I couldn't pick one, I picked none. I ended it with both of them. Needless to say it wasn't fun. I really don't want to go into details, but I did manage to avoid "running over myself with my own car".
It's all over with Kristen and Rachel. I'm not going to end the experiment yet, but I am going to take a break from it for two months. In other words I want to get past Christmas, New Years, and Valentines Day before I try again. I have learned some lessons from this which will help me the next time. Next time I want to see if I can do a bit better. Kristen and Rachel weren't bad by any means. Considering how bad lots of women are (just watch that Jersey Shore series on MTV for some proof) I was doing pretty good even with them. Regardless, I want to see if I can do better. That should also help with falling into another situation where I'm nailing two women.
The experiment will continue on February 15th.
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Read this:
http://problemwithwomentoday.blogspot.com/2009/12/problem-with-women-today-what-in-hell.html
Did you at least give them the Seth Cohen starter pack?
@Eumaios
Of course not. Don't you know that I can only relate to women as "cum dumpsters" (so sayeth Susan Walsh).
What's worse is that I'm familiar with what a "Seth Cohen starter pack" is.
Sounds as if you made a decision for the best considering both your feelings and the high pressure season that is the holiday filled season of Nov-Feb.
"It's all over with Kristen and Rachel. I'm not going to end the experiment yet, but I am going to take a break from it for two months... Next time I want to see if I can do a bit better."
So you've dirtied your hands and become part of the problem, eh? What you're doing only reinforces the games that women play, such as playing hard to get as a means of weeding out the insincere. In response to that you'll probably just up your own "game". Which makes any complaints you make about either -- girl or guy game -- pretty hollow.
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