Sunday, November 22, 2009

Spearhead Article: The Light of Truth of Paternity Testing

Recently, the New York Times had an article on paternity testing which has already been commented on by our own Roissy and Female Masculinist on their respective personal blogs.  The men in the NYT article are all the victims of fraud.  In any other context, the legal system would consider this a case of outright fraud.  What this means is that the simple technology of paternity testing has acted as the light of truth exposing the entire family law system from lawyers to judges as corrupt and supremely dishonest.


The other area where paternity testing has shown the light of truth is with female behavior.  Before paternity testing the only way a man would know for certain if his wife/girlfriend had committed paternity fraud against him was if he was away from his wife/girlfriend for an extended period of time when conception would have taken place.  Now, it's possible for men to know the truth both individually and globally.  Depending on who you ask the cuckoldry rate is somewhere between 1% and 30% with 10% being a commonly cited number.  Without mandatory paternity testing it's impossible to know the exact percentage.  However, the exact percentage doesn't matter so much since paternity testing has shown that paternity fraud does happen enough that every man should be concerned about whether his kids really are his kids.

Before paternity testing women and male white knights would claim that "women would never lie about paternity".  Since paternity testing has proven this to be a myth, they have moved to "biological/genetic connections don't matter" and shaming language.  Take this quote from Carol McCarthy, an officer of the Pennsylvania chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.
“Having been involved in cases like these, I think the answer to ‘Is it my kid?’ is irrationally important to the cuckolded husband.  My own biases are going into this because I’m adopted, so I’m real into ‘your parents are the people who raise you.’ I couldn’t care less who my biological parents are.
First, take notice of the shaming language.  Beyond that this quote is incredibly self serving.  I would bet serious money that if McCarthy had a medical problem that was inherited or otherwise required family medical history she would change her tune really quick.  And what about all of those adopted children who go searching for their biological parents?  According to her that shouldn't happen.  It's all just more proof that McCarthy is claiming that fatherhood doesn't matter and engaging in anti-male shaming language.

If a genetic connection doesn't matter for fatherhood that why does it matter for motherhood?  The article points out that hospitals go to great lengths to make sure that the baby a mother gave birth to is the baby she leaves with including footprints, matching ID bands, guarded nurseries, surveillance cameras, etc.  If genetics does not matter then why doesn't the government take all babies after they are born and randomly reassign them to parents?  It's because genetics does matter.  Every other position is self serving shaming language, and paternity testing has exposed this.

Mandatory paternity testing will probably not happen in the future since women and male white knights will oppose it.  However, that does not matter since the most significant change from the creating of paternity testing is the knowledge men now have that cuckolding is a serious problem.  Men are now aware of the need to make sure that his kids are really his, and nothing is going to put that genie back into the bottle.


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