Monday, November 2, 2009

The Experiment: Some success over the weekend

Here is what you guys have been waiting for, a report of what happened over the weekend.

I went to a Halloween Party over the weekend which is something I usually hate, but I went because this experiment isn't going to happen without doing everything I can to meet women.  It was very worthwhile because I hit it off with two women.  I'm going to call them Kristen and Rachel (not their real names).  Kristen is older than me, and I think she's about 36.  For those of you who watch Saturday Night Live she kind of looked like Kristen Wiig, which is why I chose the name for her.  Rachel is a bit younger than me.  I think she's about 28.  She reminded me of a girl named Rachel I knew in high school so that's why I chose that name.  (The party was big enough that I don't think that Kristen and Rachel knew about each other.)

I have to say things were just way too easy.  Initially, it felt like my brain was on overdrive trying to deal with them and other women.  All you guys reading this know, I don't have much experience in the way of picking up women.  Once I started doing it, it just became so easy.  Frankly, I was expecting to have to climb a mountain for each step.  (Maybe it wasn't that easy, but it just felt that way since I was expecting it to be hugely difficult.)  I had women laughing at stupid jokes I made.  It was unbelievable.  It was like they we're programmed to respond favorably to me.  Kristen and Rachel were both responding to me pretty directly (in flirting terms).  For instance, Kristen kept touching my chest and shoulder.  It wasn't much of anything, but I was shocked that decent looking women actually wanted to touch me.

Still, this was all too easy.  Have I just developed enough effective masculinity and/or absorbed enough game and/or become dominant enough?  I guess the answer must be yes.  I'm successful in the rest of my life, and people who know me IRL associate me with being successful with women.  I figure I must have been this way for a while since I have been successful in the rest of my life for quite a few years.

I'm going to be seeing both Kristen and Rachel later this week (not at the same time obviously).  I really don't want to be juggling two women, but I don't want to drop one either.  Things might not work out with one so I don't want to lose the other.

The next thing on my mind is sex.  With Rachel, I'm sure the three date rule applies.  With Kristen I think she may want to move even faster.  She is a bit older than me, and I suspect that she is looking to get laid more than anything else.  I may have been able to nail Kristen Saturday night, but I didn't even try that since I was not prepared for sex either mentally or in a practical sense.  (There might be some pumaish aspects going on with Kristen.  A puma is like a cougar, but with less of an age difference.)  I'm going to do some "research" so I'm prepared if and when anything happens.  It's not going to make me a virtuoso at sex, but at least I should look like I know what I'm doing.  I am going to demand that Kristen and/or Rachel get STD tests if things get that far.  I'm sure I will have to get one too.  This will buy me a bit of time so I'm better prepared, but more importantly, I don't want to stick my zucchini in a petri dish.

I will keep you guys posted.  As always, suggestions and comments are welcome.

5 comments:

Talleyrand said...

1) Get your testing done sooner rather than later. Its a buzz kill. I'm actually thinking of getting tested about every 2-3 months to deal with this question.

2) Not to discredit your "aura" but Halloween is prime pick up time. Women tend to be dressed a little more provocatively, which impacts their state of mind. It is also a time of danger and fantasy, or fantasy danger. Those two things give the night an erotic edge. Were you at a costume party? Role play opportunities, on and on. So this may have helped.

3) Did you know these women from before? Were you flirting with them at the same time?

Good luck!

Pro-Male/Anti-Feminist Tech said...

Get your testing done sooner rather than later.

I can have mine done ASAP, even though as we know its meaningless. What about theirs? That's what I really concerned about. Then again, if they refuse, I dump them. It's that simple.

Not to discredit your "aura" but Halloween is prime pick up time.

I'm sure you hit on what was happening. You have to be right about everything conspiring to make it easier for me. I knew there was no way that I was that good. No one goes from nothing to picking up two women in a night without something else going on.

Does this mean that they might not be so interested in me post-Halloween?

Did you know these women from before? Were you flirting with them at the same time?

No and no.

Ferdinand Bardamu said...

" I don't want to stick my zucchini in a petri dish."

Heh, heh, that's the line of the week, dude. I was bent over my keyboard laughing at that one.

Talleyrand said...

Ever been to a lock between two lakes of different height? Pick up is kind of like that, you got to get through the initial barrier, then you have to build up enough sexual tension and then just the right amount of comfort to get through to the other side.

The lakes are closer to the same level on Halloween and other holidays.

It is possible they might not be so interested, then again the holiday season is coming up and everyone wants a bright shiny boyfriend to parade around at Christmas. Could go either way.

My gut tells me if you play it right, they both are in a buying mood.

Anonymous said...

Dude, do a threesome with these ladies. They were touching you because they were fighting the urge to rip your clothes off. Every woman at that party was wet for you.

Make these two ladies understand that women are insigifigant sluts to a man of your superiority.

DJ

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