The funny thing is that not so long ago I would have supported those women complaining about that Sci-Fi post, and totally. Things started to change when I realized that all the insults they used (loser, can’t get a date, blah blah blah) described me and my friends- the very same guys who stood up for them. In fact, I knew even back then that a lot of the guys saying things like Tech, or Roissy said, were getting the girls, and lots of them. That hurt me a lot- much more than I was willing to admit at the time.Those of you who have read enough of my blog and writings elsewhere know that this isn't the case for me. (Yes, I know he says guys "like" me so I don't know if he's saying that he thinks I get lots of chicks or that guys "like me" do.) Regardless, it got me thinking. A long time ago I realized after banging my head against the wall one too many times in dealing with women that they aren't worth it. At that point I stopped bothering. That was several years ago.
I only say that I'm a virgin when there's complete anonymity. I don't tell anyone in real life so no one knows. IRL lots of people think I do well with women. I have never really cared to think why this is until now. I have made sure that I have never been in absurd 40 year old virgin style situations which isn't difficult to do.
Lots of people believe that being a virgin beyond age X (where X could be 18, 22, etc.) means you're a total loser at life, either unemployed or working a minimum wage job, living in your parents basement. I am living proof that this is not the case since I'm the opposite of all those things. While I know this fact, lots of people believe otherwise. In other words, since I don't announce the fact that I'm a virgin IRL, everything else someone knows about me IRL (since they most likely believe the myth about virgins) would lead them to believe I'm incredibly successful with women since I'm incredibly successful in the rest of my life.
So much of game is really effective masculinity. Even long before I even heard of game I was practicing effective masculinity in my life. This is one of the reasons why I have been so successful in other areas of my life (i.e. my career). This is another reason why people IRL would assume I'm successful with women. Lots of guys nowadays do not demonstrate effective masculinity, and I could tell you lots of examples of this. If you're reading this blog, you probably can too from your own life.
This has made me curious. Am I really a guy who is incredibly successful with women now who just doesn't know it because I don't care? I'm undecided about running an experiment about this. There's a reason why I get associated with being successful with women as long as I don't tell anyone the truth about this. I'm curious, but at the same time why should I care? Plus, if I do engage in this experiment, it feels like I'm selling out in the sense that I might be trying to prove all those morons who think I'm a loser, morbidly obese, and have a small dick (like all those hyperemotional girls who responded to my last post at The Spearhead) wrong. As a MGHOW I don't worry about what they think and laugh at them.
I'm writing this blog entry in order to solicit some ideas from you, my readers. First, should I try this experiment? I'm interested in your reasons why I should or should not. Second, I'm also interested in ideas about what the scope of this experiment should be. For instance, picking up drunk women in bars does not actually test what I'm trying to test. This experiment will also have to involve multiple women (not at the same time) since success or failure with one woman might just be a fluke. How much LTR game will have to be involved? I'm really interested in what others have to say about all these things too.
If you have an opinion on any of this respond in a comment or send me an email.