Dump her sorry ass and GYOW

I found this story about some guy whose girlfriend wants to try scat vis the MGTOW forums.  (For those of you who don't know what scat is, it's explained in the quote below.)  Here's what the guy said:

Recently, my girlfriend of two months came up to me with a request for something foul. She wants me to try scat with her. Before I continue, let me say something. If you don't know what scat is then trust me when I say that you don't want to find out. Take my advice and don't read this thread. When my girlfriend explained to me what scat is, I threw up right away, and I've been shaking ever since. So, believe me when I say that you don't want to know what it is. If you aren't planning on taking that advice, then know that you're following at your own risk.

My girlfriend wants to poop in my mouth and have me eat it and swallow it. That's what scat is. It's the most horrific thing I've heard of, and my girlfriend wants to try it on me this saturday. She wants me to fulfill her desire. And I agreed to do it. She told me that if I'm not willing to do this for her, then I'm not a real boyfriend, that I don't love her, and that we should break up. And, well... I love her. And when you love someone, you do these kinds of things for them. My girlfriend has been stuffing her face full of everything from bean burritos to chili, with plenty of laxatives thrown in for good measure. She wants to pull out the biggest crap of her life, just for me. I don't think there's any backing out at this point. Come this Saturday, my girlfriend wants to execute the greatest display of control and female empowerment on me that she possibly can by using me as a toilet. And there's nothing that I can do about it now because I love her and I don't want to disappoint. I'm just so terrified that I need help and some people to talk to.

This may not be a real situation, but it's good for the points I wish to make.  First of all this guys is a spineless wimp like plenty of other guys.  Also, take note of the standard shaming language used, how he is not a "real boyfriend" if he doesn't do this.  Notice how he feels that he has no options.  He has two very good options.  The first is simply refusing.  The second is:

DUMPING HER SORRY ASS

This guy doesn't need her, but he's hasn't freed himself of decades of pro-female programming to be able to do this.  If he discovered MGTOW, he would be able to do what he should do.

This is an extreme example, but most guys have this problem.  Most guys are easily manipulated and controlled by their girlfriends/wives (or women in general) because of sex (or the promise of sex) and general pro-female programming that makes them think they "need a relationship".  Various MGTOW are either single, in relationships, married, ghosting, etc.  What all MGTOW have in common is that they won't become a "toilet" for some woman.  Being a man who knows that he doesn't need a relationship is critical to GYOW.

There's also a lot of other things that can be said about this scat story, but just reading the full post says it better than I ever could.  There's also some interesting metaphors you could make for the current state of male-female relationships.

Also related to this is a post by Dr. Helen about how men lie to women.  Dr. Helen calls these lies that men say to women self preservation, not lying, and there is a lot of truth to it.  For a married man who can have his life destroyed or worse by divorce, it is self preservation.  Again we have the same problem.  Men have been programmed to think that they must have a relationship so they engage in this "self preservation" to protect themselves.  While married men are stuck, if you aren't a married man a better option is to GYOW and

DUMP HER SORRY ASS

Men need to learn that they don't need women, end of story.